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Son is driving me crazy?

I am a mother of two boys, ages 12 and 13. I have another child due in November. My youngest child is currently a difficult time adjusting to an older brother. He is excited about a new baby is to house (although it would have preferred a new puppy. LOL.) But after talking to him, I discovered that it is worried about losing its place in the family. It is used to being the "baby" of the family. It was a drunken man recently and demanding all the attention my husband and me And it's starting to wreak havoc on the nerves. It is very in your face "all the time. Hugs Interrupt conversations that need, being always underfoot. My question is: How can I reassure my son that he will not be set aside for the new baby, but now has a greater role in the family?

I would not say anything negative to him like some of your answers suggest. He is 12, yes, it is not 4, but it is still your son and another child who needs lots of love and positive attention and praise. that will not do it "Mama's Boy" a Middle children often feel "left out" At his age he is already changing and it's a difficult moment for him. First tell him that you are so happy he told you how he feels and you still want him to do, if he gets a bad attitude about it, ask to speak and explain how it feels to be you speak this way. Just keep talking to him and assuring him again. Find time for him (I know it's hard when he is in need soo) does not feel like he is too old for that. it is not, its quite normal. keep communication with you and give it a attention whenever possible.

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